How much of our life is planned before birth? How much of it is shaped by Free Will choices we make along the way? Are big traumas and important relationships always pre-destined? Is it possible to make choices that go against our pre-birth life plan? Can other people interfere with our path?

In the heat of the moment, we take another person's negative /hateful /manipulative /abusive actions towards us quite literally.  ("He/she is a jerk!")

However, when we dig a little deeper, we can uncover some not-so-obvious reasons for why someone is such a negative presence in our life…